Let Go...for Time will Heal

Let Go...for Time Will Heal
(to the one who is hurting)


Yesterday, I wrote about moving on...having a shift in mindset and perspectives. I think before we can move on, we should also examine some of the things that are stopping us from making progress...for we are sometimes chained to our past.


One thing for sure is that we cannot change the past. That is the reality of the situation. Neither can we predict the future )no matter how advanced we are today)...for there are so many factors coming into play. We need to be careful that we do not allow ourselves to be stagnant, or in a limbo because we cannot move forward nor backwards.


I think those of us who stive for perfection will find ourselves disappointed over and over again. Man proposes, and God disposes may seem rather scary to some...but that is the truth. Life's circumstances are not always what we wish them to be, and that things do not go as planned. When that happens, there is always disappointment, sadness, and even pain.


I am the first to admit that yes, it is very difficult to shake off the "What ifs..." "If only..." and "Why me?"...the past is best left in the past...Yes, we need to learn from our mistakes...so that we are not likely to make them again.


We will always remember pain..but do not allow it to consume us. I think the one thing we do have control over is our own values and emotions. Fate and destiny cannot take that away...really. We need to rebuild and restore our lives...no matter how broken the pieces may seem.


To recover...we need to let go...
To regain hope...we must heal all wounds
To reclaim our lives...we must believe in the positive
To grow...we must be renew the faith we have...in God, and ourselves.
There is very little that hurt us once we release our minds and spirits from what we have allowed ourselves to think.


For a special someone...I hope I make sense...
May you find comfort and reason in what I have said.
I will always believe in you....