A Memo from Mom

A Memo from Mom
(in response to "A Memo from your child" article)

A year ago, I posted the article "A memo from your child" (author unknown). Today, as a harried mum of three children (and many other special kids), I decided to write something in response [something like what they do on Youtube].

My dear children,
You have all grown up so fast. When you were younger, there were days when I wished that you would all be up and about, without me having to worry about night feeds and boo-boos. And I know, as I look at the mirror and see the wrinkles and grey hairs, I know that it is in my mind's eye that you are fixed at a certain age. So, since I will still always be your mum, here are some things I want you to remember.

1. Don't laugh at my views of things. I am not as narrow-minded and old-fashioned as
you think. I am strait-laced at times...because I care.

2. Don't think that I am too strict and rigid. I have to instil a sense of self-
discipline in you...so that you can live in a world of rules.

3. Don't think that I only know how to nag...worry more if I don't.

4. Don't shut me out of the things you do...for I still am very much a part of your
lives.

5. Don't laugh at my incompetencies to cope with the latest technologies...for you
are the product of a very different world from mine.

6. Don't give me 'heart attacks' by the impulsive and unexpected things you may find
exciting...I want to live long enough to see my grandchildren.

7. Don't compare me to the parents of your friends...Yes, they may have more money,
more freedom and more indulgences...but I have never said no unneccessarily.

8. Don't scoff at my values...these are the things I believe will keep you anchored
in turmultous times.

9. Don't think I will be forever 'young'...as you grow and spread your wings, I am
growing old too.

10.Do always remember that all (ok...almost all) of my actions towards are governed
by the fact that I want nothing, but the best for you.

I may have made many mistakes as a parent, and I may have stumbled along the way. I may not have made the right choices. But I am very clear on certain these 2 things.
I am very proud of all of you...and I will always love you.


Signed with Love,
Mama