That Child

My children are lucky...at least I think that so far, they have yet to experience real hardships. At most, they need to do the chores set out for them. They just need to keep their focus on their school work, and not worry about money. They still get their occasional treats.

But a message was driven home last Saturday evening. The grandparents came over for a visit, and it gave us the best excuse to have dinner outside. We went for a seafood dinner...cos I was craving (?!!) for crabs.

The person who helped to serve us was someone they know. It then struck them that there are some among their friends who were less privileged than they were. Suddenly, having the food before them took a deeper significance...that they cannot take what they have for granted.

For me, looking at that child left me with mixed feelings. On one hand, I say a prayer of thanks for the blessings that my family and I have. ..good life, good food and plenty to be thankful for.

But, there was a tinge of sadness, mixed with admiration.
His mother must be so proud of him...a responsible young man who knows that he needs to work to support the family. He has had that burden thrusted upon his shoulders; yet, he has taken it within his stride.

He has learnt to stand on his own two feet; his pride preventing him from relying solely on the compassion of others. Never have I heard a word of complaint pass through his lips; nary a harsh word about his fate.

His resilience is written all over his face. There is no shame in doing honest hard work. When I asked him about his well=being, he politely smiled. "We will survive. Don't you worry."

That Child...that dear, sweet child.
The Malays have a phrase for a such a child. "Sejuk perut Mak mengandung."...a child whose very presence is a blessing to the mother who carried and raised him.

Today, I am humbled by your graciousness, your determination, your strong sense of duty and your strength of character. Today, you are the teacher as I learn about cultivating an indomitable spirit. I take off my hat to you...for being a real man.