Each Special Child

I had a good weekend. Physically in pain because of the carpal tunnel problem. But at least, my heart and mind were balmed by some individuals who restored my faith in the younger generation.

K appeared out of the blue. How long was it since I last heard from him?
This is one child who has tested me to the very limits...and who started my 'greying process'. I have long learnt to step back, and give him breathing space. This is the one who will go out of his way (?!!!) to try out the very things he knows he is not supposed to do, and will then tell it to my face. My rebel...my lost cause.

Time does mellow the inner frustrated wild child.
In its place, is a matured young individual. He can still drive in circles, and I do know his flaws..but definitely, this 'improved new version' is someone that I can look to with respect and belief. He has always had so many good things in him...it was just perhaps, he needed time to find himself. (Right K? hahaha...)

Then there is Sky.
What has Time done to someone who already has such a strong innate sense of responsibility? Maybe his greatest hurdle is self-belief...when he gets thwarted by the idea that there is always something lacking that will prevent him from reaching his true potential.

Sky is wise beyond his age; honed in perhaps by experiences that has shaped his character. He's got a long way to go, and he knows it. I know he is not likely to give up despite the challenges he faces. I enjoy touching base with him occasionally; for I know this is one whom I can trust, and he does not mince words with me.

And finally...the one whom I shall refer to as "Anak Bertuah" (hahaha...you know who you are right?)I know some of the things I said to you that evening, are not words that you want to hear...but I feel that those are the things that you should hear. The last thing I want to sink into is a state of apathy...or even...operate on a state where you are devoid of feelings.

There is a lot of uncertainties, and you waver.
Just like the other 2, one day, all these things you are going through will pass. I do acknowledge that you are very different individuals, and I should not make assumptions. But one day, I know you will be able to stand tall and proud again.

So to K, Sky & "AB"...thank you for an interesting weekend.