Responsibilty & Accountabilty

Responsibility & Accountability

I am back to 3 words I live by - Choice, Attitude & Responsibility.
Last week, someone reminded me that when I have all 3 in place, only then that I can face accountability with courage when things go right; or wrong.

This is a timely reminded to myself as I begin the year, and reach out to the new group of charges I have under me.

Choice
There is always a choice in life...no matter how good or bad things get. Sometimes, circumstances may not be favourable, and the odds are working against me, but I must try to keep reminding myself to choose to do the right thing at that moment.

At the moment, there are some things which upset me...especially with certain individuals...my special kids... But I will now choose to take and step back and not say anything...Since these kids are the 'chosen'ones...maybe this is a test.


Attitude
Well, the choice affects the attitude.
Though our emotions affect our thoughts and inner self, we can still have some form of self-control and keep them in check. It's tough...there is no one who is always happy ever moment; and again, no one is always low, bitter and angry. It is an exercise of the will.

Responsibility
I constantly have to remind myself of the different roles I have to play...and the weight of responsibility I shoulder. It is something that we cannot run away from...though sometimes, I wish it is so easy to say "It's not my problem; it is not my responsibility."

As humans in this world...we all have very strong responsibilities
- to our own self, as a living, feeling, caring, empathatic individual
- to our family and friends
- to our society , and the larger community of the world; as a global citizen.

I hope, by the end of the year, I will be able to do some self-audit.
Can I be accountable for all my actions?
Can I be held responsible for the things that happen to me and all those around me?

I do hope...that I would have a clear conscience.
(God give me courage and strength...please)